Dealing with the Impact of Having a Loved one in Prison

Many people have misconceptions or stereotypes in mind when they envision the families that have loved ones in prison, but the truth is that people from every walk of life have loved ones in the United States prison system.

Regardless of your circumstances, consulting an experienced criminal defense and criminal appeals attorney can help your family understand the charges and penalties your loved one is facing, and whether he or she may be eligible to appeal their conviction.

Your family’s criminal appeals attorney with Trusted Prison Consultants can also put you in touch with other professionals who can help your family come together and move forward during this difficult time.

Communities Incarceration Rates

While all communities have persons who ultimately end up incarcerated, some communities do have lower rates of incarceration, and for families in these communities with incarcerated loved ones, the experience of advocating for a family member in prison can be a lonely one.

Communities with higher incarceration rates, however, experience other challenges. No two experienced with the criminal justice system are the same, and well-meaning friends and family may offer unwanted and inaccurate advice. Only a qualified criminal appeals attorney can advise families with loved ones in prison.

Common Feelings of Family Members with Incarcerated Loved Ones

Family members have reported experiencing shame, embarrassment, judgment, isolation, stigma, avoidance, and fear when facing the fact that their loved one is in prison, especially when that may be unheard of in that particular community.  Some families may even wish to speak out about their experiences, but want to do so anonymously, according to a report by The Atlantic.

Some of the most bothersome feelings experienced by family members with loved ones in prison include:

  • Feeling conflicted over having both negative and positive reactions to a loved one’s incarceration;
  • Being relieved that the loved one may get the help they need in prison;
  • Anger over squandered opportunities;
  • Concern for the incarcerated loved one’s children;
  • Experiencing guilt at enjoying peaceful moments without the loved one, free of  chaos and “drama;”
  • Concerns about potential suicide of loved one;
  • Being afraid to feel hopeful for the future;
  • Jealousy over constant focus on the loved one’s legal situation;
  • Relief that the family member will be separated from abusers, drug dealers, and negative influences;
  • Issues with trust and resentment;
  • After release, concerns about relapse, parole or probation violations and recidivism
  • Disagreement amongst family members over enabling the loved one, codependency, and appropriate  boundaries.

Professionals Can Help Families Dealing with Incarcerated Loved Ones

The psychological impact of having a loved one in prison can be hard to handle and may require the help of skilled therapists, social workers, recourse counselors, clergy members, mental health professionals and of course, experienced criminal defense and criminal appeals attorneys.

Consult an Experienced Criminal Defense and Criminal Appeals Attorney with Trusted Prison Consultants

Our compassionate criminal defense attorneys and United States prison consultants work with all type of families, from those whose loved ones have had multiple prior convictions, to those who could never have imagined having a family member incarcerated.